This National Book Award Finalist is a thought provoking exploration of emotional abuse, self reliance and the nature of evil A heart wrenching portrait of family crisis, this is perfect for fans of Laurie Halse Anderson s Speak and Jay Asher s Thirteen Reasons Why For Matt and his sisters, life with their cruel, physically abusive mother is a day to day struggle for sThis National Book Award Finalist is a thought provoking exploration of emotional abuse, self reliance and the nature of evil A heart wrenching portrait of family crisis, this is perfect for fans of Laurie Halse Anderson s Speak and Jay Asher s Thirteen Reasons Why For Matt and his sisters, life with their cruel, physically abusive mother is a day to day struggle for survival But then Matt witnesses a man named Murdoch coming to a child s rescue in a convenience store and for the first time, he feels a glimmer of hope Then, amazingly, Murdoch begins dating Matt s mother Life is suddenly almost good But the relief lasts only a short time When Murdoch inevitable breaks up with their mother, Matt knows that he ll need to take some action Can he call upon Murdoch to be his hero Or will Matt have to take measures into his own hands National Book Award Finalist LA Times Book Prize Finalist ALA Best Books of the Year ALA Quick Pick
The Rules of Survival This National Book Award Finalist is a thought provoking exploration of emotional abuse self reliance and the nature of evil A heart wrenching portrait of family crisis this is perfect for fans of L
This book was so well written that I didn t notice how disturbing it was until after I finished I would call it haunting and beautiful I kept reading well into the night.Nancy Werlin has written a classic.
This ended up being a pretty personal review for me, so if you don t want to read through my melodramatic reminiscing I suggest you ie, the three of you that read my reviews skip this one __________________________________________________________________It will be absolutely impossible for me to rate this book objectively Did I like this book Not just no, but hell no However, I recognize that this dislike is influenced heavily by my own personal experience I over identified with the beginning of [...]
I devoured this book in practically one sitting I loved the taut suspense of this story a story that will resonate with many teens who must deal with abusive parents Matthew is faced with protecting his sisters from his unpredictable and often violent mother who likely is afflicted with manic depressive disorder Often he must bear the burden of her rage himself in order to to deflect it from the most vulnerable member of his family his youngest sister, Emmy The book is written from Matthew s poi [...]
The Rules of Survival is about Matthew Walsh who lives with his two younger sisters and their abusive mother He retells his story through a letter that he intends to give to his youngest sister Emmy, who was too young to understand the events that went on when Nikki abused them and put them through than just their fair share of pain.This was such a good novel, I read it in only two days both school days , so you can tell how addicted I was to reading it I seriously felt Matt s pain and I was ro [...]
My youngest daughter picked this book up on CD at our library It s a first person narrative in the form of a letter from an older brother to his youngest sister recounting a troubling and turbulent period when the two of them, and another sister, between them in age, were living with their mentally ill mother The story held my attention with its taut dark psychological tension Since I have close relatives and friends with significant mental health problems, I found the events and behavior descri [...]
Full Disclosure Nancy is a good friend.This is one of the best portrayals of a teen living with an emotionally abusive parent you will ever read I had a knot in my stomach the whole book.
Swift, interesting read and a fairly successful epistolary novel Predictable plot of abusive parent, kids trying to find their own way, but likeable characters and a nice examination of what it means to be a hero.
This book is really something Thought provoking, powerful, haunting Because the story took place over the course of five or six years, we see the steady growth of problems Matt, Callie, and Emmy endure and how they handle it What I loved most about this book was the realistic character development, particularly Matt s Although he s a protective and dedicated to his sisters, he s still a kid He shouts and gets upset and wants to leave and be selfish because he s just a kid A kid put in the positi [...]
Always remember In the end, the survivor gets to tell the story This is the story of Matt, Callie, and Emmy, written as a letter Emmy was too young to fully understand her past and so Matt has taken it as his responsibility to tell her about it It s not only about an abusive mother but it involves outsiders who were dragged into it.What did I think of the characters WOW This is one of the best character developments I have read It didn t just occur suddenly but over a realistic period of time I [...]
A good account of a domestic life under siege Matt and his sister Callie try to protect each other and their youngest sister from their unstable, irresponsible and clearly mentally ill mother, who can veer from manic cheer to vicious cruelty in seconds The writing is pretty simple, but the short sentences and short chapters fit the edgy, survivalist mode of the story I like that there is redemption at a price , but not the kind of heroics the reader might expect I found it ironic intentional tha [...]
The Rules of Survival Surviving the Unsurvivable What would you do if you had an abusive and irresponsible mother Would you tell someone Pretend it wasn t even happening Make it stop In The Rules of Survival, by Nancy Werlin, Mathew is the oldest of his three siblings who all have faced this problem every day of their lives This realistic fiction novel is based in Boston, where the children have no one to turn to except each other, with an absent father, and an aunt who doesn t seem to know or c [...]
This book terrified me, but I would say such in the most constructive way possible Why Well, for one, Nancy Werlin places the reader right in the center of 14 year old Matthew s experiences in protecting his siblings from a mother from heck and back The reader sees the desperation in his penned letters to his youngest sister Emmy chronicling the abuses they enduredd the desperation of getting out If you re not aware of how terrifying Matthew s mother, Nikki, can be consider some of her actions a [...]
I HATED the mom in The Rules of Survival So much that my blood pressure would literally spike while reading of the cruelties she inflicted on her children I loathed the adults who turned a blind eye to the abuse because they just didn t want to deal with it at the time In my book, by turning a blind eye, you become just as bad if not worse than the abuser But yeah, this book had me pissed off through a vast majority of it and horrified when I wasn t pissed.The Rules of Survival is one of those b [...]
How can a mother love her children, but treat them like she doesn t at the same time Most children feel safe around their mother, but not in this case This is realist fiction story about Matthew and his two sisters that have to deal with having a dangerous mother.There are a lot characters in this book, but without Nikki there wouldn t be a story Nikki, the main character is the mother of her three children She shows her love for her children differently, she s definitely dangerous and a bit ins [...]
Reviewed by Sally Kruger, aka Readingjunky for TeensReadToo You looked at Callie and me from over our mother s shoulder I hoped you wouldn t try to wriggle out of the embrace, because in fact our mother seemed to be in a good mood She was humming Cocaine New man There were a few possibilities, and I didn t care which one it was Maybe we d have an okay evening Those are the words of Matthew Walsh as he tells a story of survival to his youngest sister Emmy Matthew has decided to write down the eve [...]
I believe the author knows about child abuse, neglect and a sociopathic parent.Classified as Young Adult genre, the National Book Award Finalist is yet another book categorized as young adult simply because the narrator is a young child.It is not easy to read about adult violence inflicted on children who desperately need assistance Twelve year old Matthew Walsh desperately tries to protect his young siblings.Their mother s mood swings, violence and cruelty is soul numbing and heartbreaking The [...]
A well written and intense examination of living with an unstable and emotionally abusive parent The book is written as a long letter from oldest sibling Matthew to his younger sister Emmy, containing both his recollections and resulting advice hard won from the time when they lived with their mother The mother in this book is one of the most emotionally disturbing parents I ve come across, almost too much so, because it was hard to think of her as a functional person To her children she was of [...]
What did I learn from this book Well, a very obvious lesson which is the rule of survival at its basic level is self preservation When you re in danger, your human instinct is to protect yourself This story, however, showed me that as humans when we truly love someone, we ll neglect our most basic instinct and protect those we love even if it endangers our own life This book is about three children who are being raised by an abusive mother It was never quite clear if she was manic depressive, bi [...]
This is a very good book I would like to read books like this all the time if I could It was a book that you could fallow along with very good It is about these three kids that have to live with there crazy mother The oldest boy named Matthew did all he could to keep his sisters together and stay strong for them The main characters are Matthew, Emmy and Murdogh Thought out this book Matthew is trying to find Murdogh a man he met in a store He thought Murdogh was god because he stuck up in what h [...]
Wow This was a pretty intense book It had my heart rate accelerated all the way through It s about 3 kids trying to survive an unpredictable abusive mother so the content is pretty heavy, but at the same time it s a surviver story so you know it s going to be okay It kind of reminds me of a book I once read called Weeping Willow Both of the books are somewhat emotionally draining but you come out of the experience on a high to see the kids come through a horrific ordeal and land on top It also m [...]
As Matt struggled for protection and the understanding that even the most trusted person can harm you, I found myself reminded constantly of my friends parents They were schizophrenics and I wondered if this was what it was like for her Through out the book, I wondered what this womans problem was I still didn t figure it out All I know is that she was mentally disturbed, and maybe bipolar I like how the author came to the realization at the end that the letter wasn t to the sister The letter wa [...]
I didn t really hate this book, but I didn t understand the purpose of it It did not entertain me Instead, it kind of bored me Not because of the subject matter unpredictable, diabolical abuse, which is admittedly not boring , but because of the characters I didn t care about any of them The book didn t make me care Of course I would care in real life, in the sense that I d want to help them, but as a story, it fell really flat Flat like a pancake Read Flowers in the Attic instead
Matt and his sisters, Callie and Emmy, live in a war zone Their mother is unstable and abusive, and there are no adults to help I kept wondering why Matt never told someone at his school, but he explains why a sad commentary on our system.The book structured as a letter that Matt writes to Emmy, explaining to her what happened during their childhoods, which Emmy was too young to remember.For those of you who are wary or weary of another book about damaged families, this book does have an uplifti [...]
one of the best books I ve read, i m so attached to it, its breathtakingly beautifuleveryone should read it.
This book is an exciting mysterious book about anything that could happen to kids even the unspeakable i loved it and want eveyone to read it
actual rating 3.5 5 This was a really eye opening read for me We overlook matters such as child abuse because it s an issue that s been going on for a long time so long that even if we re not suffering from it, we feel like we re well informed about it The Rules of Survival bring to light the many faces of it and in an indirect way, shows us what we re doing wrong when we stand on the sidelines watching it happen yet, not helping The first interesting thing I saw were the two portrayals of obses [...]
Harebrained That is the best word that comes to mind to me when I read this book It describes Nicki Walsh other than insane, nuts and psychotic If you enjoy books about people who are totally out there and insane then this book is just right for you The rules of survival by Nancy Werlin is definitely a page turner because I could not just put it down I always had to keep reading This book has a lot of very exciting and suspenseful moments but also has sad ones too When I would be reading this bo [...]
Matt is writing a letter to his youngest sister Emmy, telling her about what they all went through being raised by their abusive mother Nikki Nikki doesn t beat them much or starve them, but she does leave them alone for days at a time and is emotionally abusive Matt is used to dealing with Nikki, until he meets Murdoch, who stands up to an abusive parent in a store while Matt watches He later decides to track Murdoch down, but Nikki beats him to the punch and ends up dating Murdoch Even after t [...]
The Rules of Survival was an amazing book It is a story about three kids living with an abusive mother, the book takes you through their life, their struggles and adventures The book has a very sad and sensitive subject, but the writing was so well done, it almost made me forget all the horrible situations that happened in this book Many other good reads reviewers agree with this, some refer to this book as haunting but beautiful which is very poetic I would agree with them, because there were s [...]
My opinion on this book is that I really loved it, if i could i would give it another award winner medal I liked how she really got into the book When she started to describe some things i could really picture it in my mind while i read the book Every chapter you read is different like, in one chapter there is drama the next some guy trying to save three kids from their mother In this book by Nancy Werlin, she did a really good description of the hard life of the three siblings, and their diffic [...]